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Tuesday, 12 May 2015
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How Negative Energy Affects Your Life and How to Clear It
You
know that like attracts like, right? So here's the deal: Positive people are
drawn to positive energy; negative people are drawn to negative energy. We tend
to perceive negative energy as something other people have. Sure, sometimes we
feel negative – as in, “go away and leave me alone, world!” but did you know
that negativity can be so ingrained in you that it goes unnoticed?
That's
because negativity sometimes wears a disguise called ‘reality' It's easy to
rationalize that you're ‘just being realistic' in not daring to act on a dream
– and believe it!
You
may assume that positive people are not being realistic – that they're being
naive, that they are in denial with their heads stuck in the sand, which they
put on fake smiles in the face of difficulty and so forth. But are they really
happy idiots or is there something to their positivity?
Consider
this: since when does ‘being realistic' necessarily mean that things will go
wrong and that you have to accept that as the truth?
That
doesn't mean that being realistic is automatically negative. When you view the
world from a ‘realistic' standpoint, you can't help but be negative IF your
version of reality is negative.
If
your version of reality is negative, you are conditioned to believe that
whatever can go wrong, will go wrong and whatever can go right, will probably
go wrong too. Your unconsciously held beliefs make you into a negative person
without your being aware of it!
So
– if this negativity is so ingrained in you that you don't notice it, how do
you determine whether you're stuck in a cloud of negative energy that is
attracting the wrong people, wrong situations and wrong feelings? And how can
you be sure you're not perpetuating that negativity?
Here's
a quick quiz to gauge the level of negative energy within you: -
·
Do you complain? All the time or just sometimes?
·
Do you often discuss what's wrong in the world more than
what's right? This includes the ‘terrible' weather, ‘horrible' traffic,
‘idiotic' government, ‘lousy' economy, ‘stupid' in-laws, etc.
·
Do you criticize? All the time or just certain people?
·
Are you attracted to drama and disaster (can you unglue
yourself from the TV when there's a news story of a disaster and can you avoid
getting involved in the lives of dysfunctional celebrities?)
·
Do you blame? All the time or just certain situations?
·
Do you believe that you have no control over most of your
results?
·
Do you feel like a victim? Do you talk about people doing
things to you?
·
Are you grateful for what is or will you be grateful when
things finally start going right for you?
·
Do you feel like things are happening to you? Or do you feel
that they are happening through you?
These
last two points are important: If you're not grateful except when things go
right, you are negative. Gratitude is positive. If you are grateful for what is
(including the unpleasant school of life lessons), then you can invite more and
more positive energy into your life.
Believing
that things happen to you puts you in the role of victim; then it's easy to be
negative because it's convenient to give up that power. So consider this
alternative: who or what is to blame when GOOD things happen to you? Do you
acknowledge that you are responsible for the good things – as in, you worked
hard, you earned it, etc… but blame external events or other people for your
failures? So how come, when good things happen, they are a result of what you
do, but when bad things happen, they are not your fault?
Nobody
likes to hear that. It takes courage to accept that you create your life
experience!
If
you answered yes to any of the above questions, you are holding on to negative
energy to some degree! To clear your negative energy and raise your vibration,
you will need to retrain yourself to choose a positive attitude.
Here's
another interesting idea to consider: have you noticed that positive people
seem to get what they want out of life, and even if things don't go their way,
they still enjoy their lives… while negative people whine and moan about their
misfortunes and even the good things in their lives?
To
clear negative energy, try this 3 -step process:
1.
Take ownership: “When you think everything is someone else's fault, you will
suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself, you
will learn both peace and joy.” – The Dalai Lama
2.
Cancel negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts. This takes
practice, dedication and making a decision to see the world through the eyes of
“what can go right” instead of “what can go wrong.” You'll have to catch
yourself anytime you are acting out or speaking out your negativity, and
immediately change your tune.
3.
Use the Love or Above Spiritual Toolkit to clear your energy and bring more
light and love into your life; visualize the positive instead of getting sucked
into negativity; overcome past conditioning; think intuitively from the soul
instead from ‘reality'; create a new, desired reality in your imagination and
manifest it in the outer world. Nobody wants negative energy to permeate their
lives, yet many of us allow it. But we allow it unconsciously, based on past
conditioning that suggests an inevitable outcome to certain situations. When
you overcome that conditioning and realize that the future is NOT cast in stone
but that you have more control over your circumstances than you believe – then
you can begin to consciously design your life.
What's
going to happen then? Your positive energy will magnetically attract what you
consider to be good and right for you: people, situations, things… and you'll
notice a huge, huge increase in your happiness and inner peace.
Why
not choose positive energy? Make some changes within, and you'll quickly see
positive changes in your life. Enjoy the good feelings and abundance!
Reference: social consciousness article
Eliminate Financial Problems through Self Discipline
The
primary reason for financial problems in life is lack of self discipline, self
mastery, and self control. It is the inability to delay gratification in the
short term. It is the tendency for people to spend everything they earn and a
little more besides, usually supplemented by loans and credit card debt. Today,
the savings rate in India is too low to achieve financial independence. After a
lifetime of work, the average family doesn’t have enough savings so people
continue to spend and borrow as if there is no tomorrow.
The good news is that we are
living in the most affluent time in all of human history. There are more
opportunities to achieve wealth and prosperity today, for more people, in more
different ways, than have ever existed in the history of man. It has never been
more possible for you to achieve financial independence than right now. But you
must make a resolution to do it, and then follow through on your resolution.
The Reasons for Financial Problems
The
primary reason that most adults have financial problems is not because of low earnings. The reason is
lack of self discipline and the inability to delay gratification. Why
is this weakness of character so prevalent among the majority of adults in
society today? It goes back to early childhood.
When you were a child and you
received money (whether it was your allowance or a gift from a friend or
relative), the first thing you thought of doing was to spend that money on
candy. Candy is sweet. Candy is delicious. Candy fills your mouth with a
wonderful, sugary flavor. You liked candy when you were a child, and you
probably could seldom get enough of it. Many children will eat candy until they
become physically ill because it tastes so good.
As you grew older, you developed
what psychologists call a “conditioned response” to receiving money from any
source. Like Pavlov’s dog, when you receive money, you mentally salivate at the
thought of spending this money on something that makes you happy, at least
temporarily.
Spending Makes You Happy
When you become an adult and you
earn or receive money, this automatic reaction continues. Your first thought
is, “How can I spend this money to achieve immediate pleasure?”
When you go on vacation to a
resort of any kind, you find that the hotels and streets are lined with shops
selling useless trinkets, bobbles and trash, plus clothes, artwork, and other
items that you would never think of buying at home. Why is this? Simple, when
you are on vacation, you feel happy. You have a conditioned response to
associate happiness with spending money. The happier you are, the more
unconsciously compelled you are to go out and spend money on something, or on
anything.
It is quite common for many
people, when they are unhappy or frustrated for any reason, to go shopping.
They unconsciously associate buying something with being happy. When it doesn’t
work as they expected, they buy something else. Sometimes, unhappy people go on
shopping sprees. They buy lots of things that they don’t particularly need
because they unconsciously associate spending with happiness.
Use Self Discipline to Rewire Your
Responses about Money
The
starting point of achieving financial independence is to for you use self
discipline to rewire your attitude towards money. You reach into your
subconscious mind and disconnect the wire linking “spending” and “happiness.”
You then reconnect that “happiness” wire to the “saving and investing” wire.
To reinforce this shift in
thinking, and eliminate financial problems open up a “financial freedom
account” at your local bank. This is the account in which you deposit money for
the long term. Once your money goes into this account, you resolve that you
will never spend it on anything except to achieve financial freedom.
Associate Happiness with Financial
Independence
When you begin saving in this
way, something miraculous happens within you. You start to feel happy about the
idea of having money in the bank. Even if you only open your account with `10, this action gives you a feeling of greater self-control and
personal power. You feel happier about yourself.
Because the money in your account
is emotionalized by your own thoughts and feelings, it sets up a force field of
energy that begins to attract more money into it. If you save 10 a month for a
year, you will be astonished to find that with the extra bits of money that you
have put into that account, you will probably have more than `200, rather than just `120.
If you save 100 per month, you will probably have more than `2,000
The more money you have in your
bank account, the more energy it generates and the more money is attracted into
your life. You have heard it said that, “It takes money to make money.” This is
true. As you begin to save and accumulate money, the universe begins to direct
more and more money towards you, to save and accumulate.
Everyone who has ever practiced
this principle of regular saving is absolutely astonished at how quickly their
financial problems change for the better.
The rule for financial
independence, once you have rewired your attitude toward money, is to “Pay
yourself first.” Most people save whatever is left over after their monthly
expenses, if there is anything left over. The key however is to pay yourself
first, off the top, of every amount of money you receive.
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